im past the point of "hanging out" with people

if i don't spend time with them regularly, they're not my friends. how about that. hanging out with people is like idk, it's like the beginning but it would be nice if we could hang out regularly and not just once every month to be considered..actual good friends? it's really fucking frustrating that w has more friends than me or so it seems even though i know her friends and they are like the really annoying clingy type of people